PICKING THE LOCK ON THE DOOR TO PARADISE You probably won't believe this but I am in San Francisco on the corner of Lombard and Van Ness on the seventh floor of a hotel overlooking the Golden Gate Bridge teaching a tall dark handsome poet to dance the fox trot to Frank Sinatra's "Our Love Is Here to Stay" and he won't do a thing I say, won't let me lead, won't watch my feet, won't agree I'm a better dancer because I was a go-go dancer for seven years, he says he could dance the fox trot if he wanted to, afterall he can boogaloo to the Doors' "L.A. Woman" but he doesn't want to dance the fox trot and when I laugh, he doesn't, he sits down next to the window, sips beer and peers out at the Bridge and I don't give a damn if he ever learns to dance the fox trot, the waltz, cha-cha, or the Charleston, because he is a tall dark and handsome poet, we are in San Francisco peering out at the Golden Gate Bridge that is disappearing into a sunset fog, and our love is here to stay. Joan Jobe Smith Long Beach, CA